Should you send that text? A quick way to tell
If you've rewritten it four times, part of you is already unsure. Ask: am I calm, is it clear, would I be fine if they screenshotted it, and can it wait a night? If any answer is no, tweak or wait.
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Three ways to say it
“you never listen to me and honestly im done with this, dont bother texting back”
I'm really upset right now and I don't want to say something I'll regret. Can we talk tomorrow when I've calmed down?
“hey i know it's late and we said no contact but i miss you and can't sleep”
Sleep on this one. If you still want to reach out in the morning, keep it short and honest.
“so i've been thinking and i think we need to talk about us, i'm not happy”
I've been thinking about us and I'd like to talk properly. Are you free this evening?
Common questions
Should you send that text? A quick way to tell
If you've rewritten it four times, part of you is already unsure. Ask: am I calm, is it clear, would I be fine if they screenshotted it, and can it wait a night? If any answer is no, tweak or wait.
What should I text when written while angry?
I'm really upset right now and I don't want to say something I'll regret. Can we talk tomorrow when I've calmed down?
What should I text when a late-night text to your ex?
Sleep on this one. If you still want to reach out in the morning, keep it short and honest.
What should I text when something sensitive you'd rather say in person?
I've been thinking about us and I'd like to talk properly. Are you free this evening?