How to text your ex first
Texting your ex first is the message you've been rewriting for a week. The trick isn't finding the perfect words — it's cutting the ones that give away how much you've been overthinking.
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Three ways to say it
“hey!! ik it's been a while and idk if this is weird but i was just thinking about you and wanted to check in?? no pressure to reply obviously!!”
Been thinking about you. Hope you're doing well.
“so idk if this would be weird but do you maybe wanna grab coffee sometime? no pressure of course lol i'd just be down to catch up if you are”
Coffee this week?
“hey um i know things ended messy and idk if this matters anymore but i wanted to say sorry for how i handled it, you didn't deserve that”
You didn't deserve how I ended it. I'm sorry.