Difficult
How to congratulate someone you don't like
You don't have to fake enthusiasm. You do have to be graceful. Congratulate the specific thing, don't editorialize, log off.
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Three ways to say it
Scenario 1
Rival got a promotion / award
What you'd type
“hey just wanted to say congrats on the [thing], you've been working really hard and it's cool to see it pay off, you deserve it”
LessBot
What to send
Congrats on [thing]. You put in the work.
Scenario 2
Ex got engaged
What you'd type
“hey!! saw the news, congratulations to you both, i'm really happy for you and wish you nothing but the best”
LessBot
What to send
Congratulations. Wishing you both the best.
Scenario 3
Someone you resent had a win
What you'd type
“just saw the announcement, congratulations!! that's amazing and you should be really proud, so happy for you!!”
LessBot
What to send
Big win. Congratulations.