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What to text when someone loses a loved one

You can't fix it, and you don't have to. Name the loss, say one true thing, and offer to be there. Skip the clichés like "they're in a better place".

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Three ways to say it

Scenario 1
A close friend's parent has died
What you'd type

“omg i'm so sorry i heard about your dad, i don't know what to say, let me know if you need anything”

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What to send

I'm so sorry about your dad. He was always so kind to me. I'm here whenever you want to talk, or just sit quietly.

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Scenario 2
A colleague's family loss
What you'd type

“sorry for your loss, please accept my condolences, take care”

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What to send

I'm so sorry about your mother. Please take all the time you need. Don't worry about work, we've got it covered.

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Scenario 3
Someone you don't know well
What you'd type

“i heard about what happened, my thoughts are with you and your family”

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What to send

I was so sorry to hear about your grandfather. Thinking of you and your family. No need to reply.

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Common questions

What to text when someone loses a loved one

You can't fix it, and you don't have to. Name the loss, say one true thing, and offer to be there. Skip the clichés like "they're in a better place".

What should I text when a close friend's parent has died?

I'm so sorry about your dad. He was always so kind to me. I'm here whenever you want to talk, or just sit quietly.

What should I text when a colleague's family loss?

I'm so sorry about your mother. Please take all the time you need. Don't worry about work, we've got it covered.

What should I text when someone you don't know well?

I was so sorry to hear about your grandfather. Thinking of you and your family. No need to reply.

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