How to tell someone you're not interested
Kindness isn't stretching one 'no' into three paragraphs. It's saying no clearly the first time so they don't have to guess.
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Three ways to say it
“thank you so much for asking!! that's really sweet and i'm flattered but i just don't think i'm interested in going out romantically, i hope we can still be cool tho”
Thank you — but I'm not looking for anything romantic. All the best.
“hey so i really appreciated getting to meet you and you're clearly a great person but i don't think this is going to go anywhere for me, i wish you the best”
You're great, but I don't feel a match. Wishing you the best.
“hey so i mentioned before that i wasn't looking for anything and i want to be respectful but i'd really appreciate it if you could stop reaching out”
I said no the first time. Please don't reach out again.